Friday, May 23, 2014

Do You Really Have to Do That ?

The great Maya Angelou said “The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.”  This is such a profound statement.  When I was dating my spouse years ago, he had an annoying habit that really got on my nerves.  Guess what, over 20 years has past and he still has this annoying habit that drives me crazy.  Even though we are separated, I still encounter it from time to time.  It bothered me before we got married, so I am not sure what I thought would happen once we were married and living under the same roof.  I believe that it is important to consider all aspects of a person's personality, as well as your own personality, before you make a life commitment.  If you can live with the characteristics that make you crazy and know that these things may not change, Congratulations! If you are not certain, I would advise you to do some serious soul searching before you say "I Do" because till death do us part can be a loooong time.

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