Boomerang

Dictionary.com defines boomerang (verb): to recoil or return unexpectedly, causing harm to its originator;backfire
In marriage and life in general, it is so important to be mindful of the way we treat people.  We might lie, cheat, steal, etc. and think that as long as the other person doesn't find out what is the harm?  I can have my cake and eat it too!  After all, I'm paying the bills and making sure everything is okay.  My wife isn't meeting my needs, why can't I have a little fun?  I'm taking care of the household to make sure everyone is fine.  My husband doesn't have time for me.  That's o.k., I will find someone that will.  You may know some people like this or this may be you.  Please be mindful that the negative things that you do to your spouse will most definitely come back to you.  It may take days, weeks, or even years but it will happen and when it does, you will not be able to handle it. 
If you are unhappy in your marriage, communicate with your spouse.  If both of you are willing, work on your problems.  Infidelity is never the way to go and always causes more problems.  If you feel as though you want out and you're not willing to work on the relationship, do yourself and your spouse a favor.  Be honest, stop wasting everyone's time and leave peacefully.  I don't mean move out without saying anything when the person is at work or out of town.  Have a grown up respectful conversation  about the situation.

The wonderful news is that the boomerang effect works for good things as well !
Dictionary.com  also provides another definition of the word boomerang (verb): come back or return, as a boomerang.
For those who are treating their spouses with love, respect, kindness, etc.  This is what you will receive in return. Therefore, it is up to you to decide what will boomerang back in your life so please throw your boomerang wisely.

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