Indecision

Sometimes in marriage, we find ourselves in a place we never imagined.  We come to a crossroads and don't know what to do.  We separate from our spouse and are unclear of what choices we should make. Continual indecision is not the will of God for our lives.  I know this all too well because this is the life that I have lived for years.  One daughter and 17 years ago, we separated for about 5 years.  Now three daughters and 17 years later, we find ourselves back to the same place.  Only this time, reconciliation is not in the plans.  The ironic thing is that we are better friends now than we have ever been.

I wanted to start this blog, as a way to continue with the healing process and to help other people who are going through the same situation.  It should be known that this is not a spouse bashing forum.  This is a place for healing, support, and sharing experiences.  I am not promoting divorce or reconciliation.  Just saying that it is not healthy to remain in a place of indecision.  It is time to move forward.