I bet you thought that the next few lines were going to be some juicy details of a hook up, NOT! Now that I have your attention, I would like to talk about being naked and not ashamed. In our society, it seems as though being separated or divorce comes with some type of stigma. Somebody must have cheated or they only stayed together for the kids. These might be reasons why a couple parted ways, but in a lot of relationships the following statement is also true, " We are both good people, but just not good together."
There are some people that are inherently evil, but I believe that most of us are good people that make mistakes. Some of these mistakes we can correct and move forward with our marriage. Unfortunately, there are other mistakes that cause damage to the relationship that is beyond repair. Hind sight is always 20/20 vision. We don't get do overs in life, but we can learn from our mistakes to become better and wiser.
I have found that it is o.k. and necessary for us to get naked in front of each other. When we uncover and share our experiences, it helps us to learn and grow. We need each other as people to survive. Sometimes a person just needs to know that they are not the only one going through a rough time in their marriage. No marriage is perfect, because we are not perfect people. Even the best marriages had to go through some challenges to become the great marriage it is now. As you encounter people over the course of your life, you will know who to expose yourself to. Who needs to hear your story and whose story you need to hear. Let wisdom lead and guide you and don't be afraid to Get Naked !
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