Whatcha Doing?

The positive side of being separated is that it gives you time to think and work on you.  I tend to focus on positive things.  When negative thoughts come to mind (and they do from time to time) about my separation or something that my spouse does that I do not like, I don't entertain them.   It is perfectly natural for negativity, doubt or confusion to surface from time to time.  After all I am human.  I can say that because I don't entertain the negativity, it goes away quickly.  If you dwell on the negative you will get more negative. I focus my thoughts and energy on more positive things and I attract more positive things in my life.  If you doubt that the laws of attraction work, just put it to the test.  Here is an example that we all can relate to.  I think it is safe to say that all of us know someone is who a drama King or Queen or this person may be you.  Something is always going wrong in their life.  As soon as one thing ends, something else begins.  Even when  something good does happen for them, it somehow ends up with drama.  It is so draining to even have a conversation with them.  I tend to stay away from people like this because it is too toxic for me.  The drama is never ending because as much as they complain about it, they love it!  They can not function if drama is not around in their lives.  This is where their focus lies (even subconsciously).  This is what they attract.

To stay positive and focused while separated, I would recommend counseling or a support group if necessary.   Developing a hobby if you don't have one or improving on the one you currently have.  Also, reading a wonderful weekly blog such as Moving Forward  for inspiration and support is another option (:-)  These are just a few suggestions, there are countless other options.  Take the time to discover who you really are and what you want out of life.  Whether or not you decide to reconcile with your spouse, positive self improvement is always a step in the right direction.  So whatcha doing?

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